Divorce, Kids & The Holidays

Divorce, Kids & The Holidays

When you're going through a separation or divorce, the holidays can feel like a minefield.

Divide & Thrive's Alex Beattie spoke with LMFT Melina Alden about how to navigate the holiday season after separation or divorce with kids and teens. Melina shared so many great tips for grown-ups, kids and teens including:

• Set boundaries for yourself. Check in on what feels good and what doesn't.

• Be kind to yourself. You're going through something difficult so give yourself some grace.

• Anticipate kids and teens are going to feel BIG emotions. They can manifest in behavior as well. Let them know that you are there for them.

• Don't overindulge with too much food, booze, shopping, etc. to cover up big feelings.

• You don't have to dance around the elephant in the room that things are different this year.

• Consider starting new traditions. Things don't have to be the way they always were.

• You don't have to "fake it" on days when you're not feeling celebratory.

• Give your support team a heads up that you might need some extra care this season.

• And more!

WATCH THE FULL CONVERSATION HERE

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