Considering A Divorce? Here Are 5 Things To Do ASAP

Considering A Divorce? Here Are 5 Things To Do ASAP

The idea of divorce can feel empowering, and bewildering. Once you decide divorce is your next step, most people wonder "What should I do first?".

Taking action early in the process is important so you make smart choices during divorce, and have your factual financial information at your fingertips. All of these things will save you time and money and give you peace of mind during a challenging time.

Here are 5 steps you should take ASAP:

- Get copies off all of your essential life paperwork

If you're in a long term marriage (5 years +) its important to have all pertinent statements and documents. 

- Open your own checking or savings account.

Start building your own credit and accounts. Even opening an account with $25.00 will help you start building your own nest egg. (Keep in mind all money during divorce is considered community property.)

- If you don't have one already, get a credit card in your own name.

Ideally look for something that has no annual fee and offers cash back or rewards. You can research good options on NerdWallet or The Points Guy.

- Start asking for family law attorney or mediator recommendations.

A lot of divorce professionals offer initial free consultations. (Make sure to ask before booking an appointment!)

- Make a list of questions to ask in advance.

Not sure what you should be asking a potential divorce attorney? Check out this 20-minute conversation with divorce attorney Christine Han. It's packed with helpful tips!

If you want an easy to use digital planner that guides you through what to do, check out the Divide & Thrive Divorce Organizer.

It's important to take action as soon as possible.


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